Depressed? (Vent) - Page 4

*elmuerte* · #76 2007-02-25, 11:46

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Originally Posted by Jasiek

And right or wrong is beside the point here. This is a case of duty, and a parents duty is to take care of their children in good and especially bad times.
They took that responsibility on them the day they decided to have children.

And when do people stop being a child?

ChaosFish · #77 2007-02-25, 11:51

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Originally Posted by Mia

I had a complete breakdown last night. I just could not stop crying, and it was actually quite scary. I had been upset to start with, then that got sorted out but the tears just kept flowing. I wasn't upset anymore, I just couldn't stop crying.

It's sort of comforting, because the same thing happened to me last night.

Isn't it weird, how a simple interest like Little Big Adventure attracts such a special group of people?
It may be the first time saying that, but all LBA fans I know are really special people... check out any other community on the net, none of them are any similar to the MBN.
Apparently there is something special about LBA even though I don't think I know what it is.

*Jasiek* · #78 2007-02-25, 12:59

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Originally Posted by El_Muerte

And when do people stop being a child?

A child of their parents? Never.
A child as a state of mind? That depends on the person, but it is also beside the point here.

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Originally Posted by ChaosFish

Isn't it weird, how a simple interest like Little Big Adventure attracts such a special group of people?
It may be the first time saying that, but all LBA fans I know are really special people... check out any other community on the net, none of them are any similar to the MBN.
Apparently there is something special about LBA even though I don't think I know what it is.

Noticed that too.

*Kitarii* · #79 2007-02-25, 15:38

Yep, there's no forum with such a tight community.

Streg · #80 2007-02-25, 16:19

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Originally Posted by ChaosFish

It's sort of comforting, because the same thing happened to me last night.

Isn't it weird, how a simple interest like Little Big Adventure attracts such a special group of people?
It may be the first time saying that, but all LBA fans I know are really special people... check out any other community on the net, none of them are any similar to the MBN.
Apparently there is something special about LBA even though I don't think I know what it is.

Simple, we're all Tweeners! :O

Double-J · #81 2007-02-25, 16:22

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Originally Posted by StreGGy

Simple, we're all Tweeners! :O

In our 20's.

Mia · #82 2007-02-25, 16:27

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Originally Posted by Double-J

In our 20's.

I'm not coming up for 20 JUST yet...

LBAWinOwns · #83 2007-02-25, 16:54

we are all tweeners*2 then

...

ChaosFish · #84 2007-02-25, 18:02

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Originally Posted by StreGGy

Simple, we're all Tweeners! :O

Damn!

Echomote · #85 2007-02-25, 18:19

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Originally Posted by Mia

I'm not coming up for 20 JUST yet...

Me neither

*Kitarii* · #86 2007-02-25, 18:22

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Originally Posted by LBAWinOwns

we are all tweeners*2 then

...

So we're all fourty?

I'm barely 16!

By barely I mean, legally and historically I am 16 years old, but my mental capacity and behaviour sometimes suggests otherwise.

Echomote · #87 2007-02-25, 18:25

Simply, those below 20 are tweenagers then :P

*morshem* · #88 2007-02-25, 18:34

I bet there is no forum with so many aspergers too, btw

Kobold · #89 2007-02-25, 18:38

In percentage, OBrasilo's does quite well.

LBAWinOwns · #90 2007-02-25, 19:28

tween (twēn)

A child between middle childhood and adolesence, usually between 8 and 12 years old.

so (8..12)*2 ~= 20

True we got a lot of aspergers here...

*Atresica* · #91 2007-02-25, 22:20

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Originally Posted by morshem

I bet there is no forum with so many aspergers too, btw

They're everywhere!!!

* Atresica leaves the thread as she is too happy to contribute anything.

*Jasiek* · #92 2007-02-26, 00:14

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Originally Posted by Jasiek

Now for something different.
[emo mode]
I wonder, is there a fucking point in love? You find a perfect person, with an ideal charachter, beatifull and smart, witty, with interests in great things. And what do you do? You do as always when you find original, unique beauty, you love it. But why does no one ever care about that? Why does it have to be a retarded game, in wich someone who is an ampty shell of a person, who never knew love, who doesen't even really care, can get to the beauty? Why when you try and want someone the hardest, it is the hardest to get that person love you back? It stays a fucking game, in wich love has nothing to say, moreover it has to stay hidden, it's like an auction in wich you show a lot of qualities and nifty pick up lines. After a few years of that happening again and again I'm starting to loose faith that true, real and strong feelings and sincerity will ever get you any closer to the real beauty in people.

Fuck all that, let's just be freakin egoists.
[/emo mode]

* Jasiek has regained inner calm a day after posting this. Emotional safe guards have been put back in place - depression has been supressed(again), the victory of the mind against the emotions.

Bot13 · #93 2007-02-26, 01:38

There's a truth in there that comforts you, Jasiek. But the more you think of it, the more you can see that there isn't any goal in love or pleasure. Love and pleasure aren't goals, they're paths.
Dunno who said it, I guess Ghandi or something. "Life isn't a destination it's a path".
I thought of it very much too. I once had a nice girl who became my girlfriend, and in the exact phase where I thought "yay, hugging on my bed and kissing isn't just friends anymore" she stopped doing anything. We didn't talk anymore, just plain nothing, until today.
It's ignorance that's driving me insane. I don't know what happened, I don't know what to do or how to make this right anymore. In these very years of life people start to seperate their actual feelings and the things that they seem to be towards the others. It's all about knowing things. I don't know what happened there, but some of my friends do and they aren't telling anything. That's because it gives them power to have something I don't have, and it gives them the opportunity to create better friendships ('see I'm not telling him, so you can trust me').

Just two days ago I had this conversation with a girl. About a boy she met 2 days before, and she kissed him near a swimmingpool. Why? He seemed so pathetic when a couple kissed and he had no-one. *newsflash* That happens to more people out there. What a brilliant idea to even hurt him more and give him the only thing that can destroy such people - false hope.
And now she was fucking complaining about him following her and saying things that he loved her so much. Yeah, yeah, he should leave her alone. But no, it's not okay to tell him that - that wouldn't be nice, would it?

Anyway, I'm about to make this whole text way too long again. It's just what's bugging me.
Good night, blokes.

schitzn · #94 2007-02-26, 02:02

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Originally Posted by ChaosFish

It's sort of comforting, because the same thing happened to me last night.

Isn't it weird, how a simple interest like Little Big Adventure attracts such a special group of people?
It may be the first time saying that, but all LBA fans I know are really special people... check out any other community on the net, none of them are any similar to the MBN.
Apparently there is something special about LBA even though I don't think I know what it is.

Agreed, its the only one I waste time visiting.

CS2x · #95 2007-02-26, 06:12

Other forums have can have depressed people, but it manifests itself through constantly cynical, bitter, and destructive posts. That just makes things worse...
We're quite lucky, really.

*Jasiek* · #96 2007-02-26, 06:18

Yeah, we're all depressed, but we're happy bout it!
Well...sorta...
not really?

Lightwing · #97 2007-02-26, 07:56

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Originally Posted by Bot13

I thought of it very much too. I once had a nice girl who became my girlfriend, and in the exact phase where I thought "yay, hugging on my bed and kissing isn't just friends anymore" she stopped doing anything. We didn't talk anymore, just plain nothing, until today.
It's ignorance that's driving me insane. I don't know what happened, I don't know what to do or how to make this right anymore.

While you may never fix anything, you may get to the bottom of things by talking. Communication is the key to any relationship, even a non-existant one. You talk, you confront, you duke it out. The moment a person stops talking to you, they get on their way to become a stranger.

LBAWinOwns · #98 2007-02-26, 17:05

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Originally Posted by Bot13

Just two days ago I had this conversation with a girl. About a boy she met 2 days before, and she kissed him near a swimmingpool. Why? He seemed so pathetic when a couple kissed and he had no-one. *newsflash* That happens to more people out there. What a brilliant idea to even hurt him more and give him the only thing that can destroy such people - false hope.

I don't agree. If the guy cheered that he would get someone that loved him, and then get disappointed that it did not occur. It's no one but his problem, and he are responsible to prevent it.

Personally I wouldn't care that she did not love me I think, just be happy I got along with a girl for a certain time. Or in fact I can't imagine myself in such situation -.- . But I mean principally.

Rex_Hollywood · #99 2007-02-26, 18:45

You didn't get along with her for a certain time, she just felt sorry for you.

Axx · #**100** 2007-02-26, 19:13

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Originally Posted by CS2x

Other forums have can have depressed people, but it manifests itself through constantly cynical, bitter, and destructive posts. That just makes things worse...
We're quite lucky, really.

On average 1 in 4 people suffer from some sort of depression/anxiety dissorder

On THIS forum i think its more like every 3 in 4 suffer from some sort of depression/anxiety dissorder

Only thing that can make me get depressed are relationships going bad (not friendships allow me to highlight)

Atresica --> Just admit it, your suicidal, get it over with, your life aint worth it, jump baby jump from the highest building, the highest skyscraper!