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Old 2013-03-25, 00:32
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Exclamation just broke up with mY ASSHOLE bf

guys!!! need to rant!

i been seeing this guy who i thought was loevly he was everything you'd want in a guy: attractive, has a car, also studied cs (long time ago tho hes older hahaha) but today i had to break up with him i just can't believe what happened

so i was out with my girlies on the saturday for my cousin's birthday.. great nite lots o laughs hahah but i usually do't drink that much.. damn you jagermeister your a cruel mistress!! :/ so anyway i end up so drunk i kiss this guy (no biggie right i mean it happens plus we were only datin for like 2 months) i feel like shit after tho

so i end up cryin at 3am telling him what happened and he doesnt say anything trying to reassure me that its ok and all that. so anyway today he doesn't sent me my morning wake up text and just doesn't contact me ALL DAY which is totally unusual for him i mean we text like a bazillion times a day right, so i go over to his flat and confront him cause he said we were ok and i thought we'd just forget what happened, but noooo he totally starts on me for no reason! basically says i'm being sooo disrespectful and everything after all he's done for me (yeah right) and all the things hes bought me so i just say to him he's acting really unreasonable right now, so i move past him and go to leave and he SLAPS ME ACROSS THE FACE. right?? i can't believe it either!!

so i just got back, sent him a text that it's ***OVER***

sorry for the bad grammar im just so upset right now :/
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Old 2013-03-25, 00:52
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This reminds me of my old thread.
http://forum.magicball.net/showthread.php?t=15693
now I look at the stuff I've written with disgust, now it feels ridicolous that I started such a thread.

That's how things have to go, soon you'll forget about him and you will laugh of how stupid you've been to get angry about him. (NO OFFENCE INTENDED)

Life goes on girl, cheer up! We all get dumped from time to time Besides if it's just a 2 months long story you will forget about all this in no time. Trust me on that. and good luck.

PS: - Slapping a girl for this is absurd. I mean, probably I'd slap my girlfriend if I saw her kissing another man now (we've been together for almost 2 years now), but after a 2 months story, cmon, what kinda man is that? Probably if I was in his situation I'd be pretty angry too, but I wouldn't have reacted like this.
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Old 2013-03-25, 03:07
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Aww Pim, dear Pim, I'm so sorry for you.
You've come to the right place, MBN is the place to go to sink your emotions!



Here is my opinion:

He is probably some spoiled boy who did not learn to give the proper value and respect women deserve.
And yes, it was improper of him to slap you, no matter the reason, it is very childish and unworthy of a real man to do so.

That being said, I think he did not trust you, he did not trust it was just a kiss.
You broke your trust with him and that was very irresponsible of you if you truly cherished him.

However, you did the right thing by telling him the truth instead of omitting or lying about the incident.
But it was not the right thing to do to get so drunk without him beside you.

Breaking up with him was your best choice, so don't regret it.
He should have valued the fact you were honest with him.
And you should value someone's trust in the future.

Let everyone learn something from this...
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Old 2013-03-25, 16:29
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Old 2013-03-25, 16:49
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thanks guyzzz for cheering me up i feel a lot better now!! had a good cry
but yeah looking at everything that's happened i'm kind of glad i'm single, although it's gonna suck having to pay for everything!!
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Old 2013-03-25, 17:32
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Everything can be seen through different perspectives. Everything has pros and cons. To be single, means you can date other guys. But you're also lacking the boyfriend with whom you can be with. It just depends on the perspective you choose to use.

In different words, being single means you might get lonely at times between dates etc. But it's also your chance look out for the better guy for you. Or, to find out who suits you better and what your preferences are.

From an entirely different perspective, if you never experience bad things in life, if your life only does good to you, you can never learn how to deal with bad things. This does not mean you have to be overflooded by bad experiences though, but that usually doesn't happen. If it does, it often means the person needs some more selfreflection.
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Old 2013-03-25, 17:33
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he was everything you'd want in a guy: has a car
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it's gonna suck having to pay for everything!!
So... that's what boyfriend$ are for ?
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Old 2013-03-25, 18:27
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So, you frenched a dude at a party. Some couples break up over it, some don't.

There's plenty of guys with cars, you'll find another. But pretty sad he slapped you, wtf.
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Old 2013-03-25, 18:30
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whelp i'm glad feminism is still alive and kicking

still, i guess it's an efficient form of prostitution. plus when you fuck up you don't have a pimp to slap you arou- oh wait
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Old 2013-03-25, 18:58
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Forgot about the slapping part... I seriously disaprove of that, any and all cases.
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Old 2013-03-25, 19:07
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whelp i'm glad feminism is still alive and kicking

still, i guess it's an efficient form of prostitution. plus when you fuck up you don't have a pimp to slap you arou- oh wait
I think this is my favorite post in this thread. By a mile. Nay, two miles. +10
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Old 2013-03-26, 11:15
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Money seems to have an important place in your life...
I agree with everyone though, hitting you was totally uncalled for. I can't understand why a person hitting another one should be accepted when it's clearly not self-defense.
About alcohol... Now you know what can happen when you drink too much, you should be more carefull to avoid these situations in the future.
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Old 2013-03-26, 13:41
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Or you should, you know, not tongue fuck some random when you have a boyfriend who otherwise seemed to have the qualities about which you care the most (attractiveness and a car).

Hitting a woman is wrong and bad form, regardless.
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Old 2013-03-26, 15:20
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What about hitting a man ?
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Old 2013-03-26, 15:27
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What about hitting a man ?
You mean a woman hitting a man?
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Old 2013-03-26, 16:19
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Old 2013-03-26, 18:07
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What about hitting a man ?
A man may hit another man, if it would straighten him out.
A woman may hit another if they have something to settle.
A woman may hit her man if he cheats on her.
But no man or woman may cause another harm.
So I guess no one can hit anyone.
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Old 2013-03-26, 18:28
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cmon guyz it's not that having money and a car are mandatory in a guy, but it's a plus
it's like a girl with a nice pair of tits is nicer than the same girl without
lipstick fuck you, this guy just happened to buy me a lot of stuff and i admit i got a bit used to it
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Old 2013-03-26, 18:34
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What is this creature people are always talking about, money? Can I hug it? Does it love me?
As long as my girl doesn't kill it I'm fine with it.
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cmon guyz it's not that having money and a car are mandatory in a guy, but it's a plus
it's like a girl with a nice pair of tits is nicer than the same girl without
lipstick fuck you, this guy just happened to buy me a lot of stuff and i admit i got a bit used to it
speaking of tits, when are you posting yours?

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What is this creature people are always talking about, money? Can I hug it? Does it love me?
As long as my girl doesn't kill it I'm fine with it.
are you a native english speaker?
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Old 2013-03-26, 18:49
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cmon guyz it's not that having money and a car are mandatory in a guy, but it's a plus
it's like a girl with a nice pair of tits is nicer than the same girl without
lipstick fuck you, this guy just happened to buy me a lot of stuff and i admit i got a bit used to it
Confirming superficiality and flaming another member in the same post? Well done. *golf clap*
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are you a native english speaker?
No, I'm a programmer.
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[21:53] <OBattler> i just don´t believe in behaving like either an animal
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